Our marriage like any other has its ups and downs. We committed early on to never let divorce be an option however, I find myself thinking about actually considering a divorce more and more. I can’t seem to stop myself from seriously thinking about it. What else can you do when your spouse will hardly touch you? OK, so I get a “goodbye” peck in the morning, and a hug occasionally, but that’s all.
If I try to bring it up we end up in a huge fight. I’ve pretty much given up even trying. No one wants someone doing something with them when they know the person doesn’t want to. This has been going on for 7 years now. I’m going nuts!
All of this got me thinking. If divorce is not an option, then doesn’t it give a spouse license to do whatever he/she wants since they know you won’t leave?????
Lot’s of folks say to pray. Been there. Done that. Nothings is happening. I try to be quiet and not like the “dripping faucet” in the Bible. Still nothing. That just seems like silence is acceptance.
I know God does not want divorce, but it is soooooo hard.